Sexologist · coach · Belgrade & online

Find yourconfidence,become yourself.

I help you move past fears and insecurities, rebuild trust and find harmony in your relationships — with a partner and with yourself. No judgement, no scripts, no awkwardness.

Eva Sholomitskaya — sexologist and coach
01About me

Eva — sexologist, family consultant, coach.

Eva Sholomitskaya — portrait

Years inside the adult industry showed me from the inside why people struggle with closeness — and how they find their way out.

I often hear from men who find it hard to build trusting, close relationships. I see women who cheat and women who are cheated on. Marriages with no honesty left, but plenty of lies and anxiety.

Behind every request I see a person with their own experience and a complicated history.

I trained professionally as a sexologist and now focus on counselling.

My goal is to help as many people as possible hear themselves, move past self-doubt and find harmony in their relationships.

5+
Years around
relationships
2
Formats —
in person and online
3
Methods
behind the work
03Approach

Three methods that work together.

Method / 01

Cognitive behavioural therapy

We track dysfunctional beliefs and patterns and replace them with ones that work. Plenty of practice, homework and measurable change.

Method / 02

Body-oriented therapy

The body remembers everything. We learn to hear emotions through physical sensation and release tension where words no longer reach.

Method / 03

Coaching

We open up your potential through concrete techniques — not «digging through the past», but moving towards what you actually want.

I'm actively studying hypnosis, group and family therapy, art therapy and other approaches — and use whatever fits you best.

04Client reviews

Words from those who've walked this path.

Your advice helped me understand how to be with men without wrecking my own head, and still get everything I want. To every girl who doesn't know how to feel confident and worthy of gifts and care — I recommend Eva.

Valeria, 20

She came with the question: «Why do some girls get wonderful gifts while I just get used? How do I change that?»

From the first minutes I felt I was in safe hands. Topics that used to bring up embarrassment or anxiety turned out to be easy to discuss without any sense of judgement. After every session I feel calmer and more sure of myself.

Dmitry, 27

The request: «I want to get rid of my porn dependency, I spend over $3000 a month on girls but still feel alone.» We found long-standing depression, I referred him to a psychiatrist — now we work with the deeper beliefs.

Thank you so much for the support and the advice — I needed it badly at that moment. I decided to stay with my husband and keep working on the relationship together. Things are good now, but I've taken the rose-tinted glasses off and I understand what I was dealing with.

Victoria, 24

She came after her husband's affair.

I can see the progress in my life after our sessions. I like the personal approach and the genuine interest in the problem and its solutions, including practical ones. I have more motivation and more appetite for life.

Anton, 25

Came to build relationships with women — we work with intrusive thoughts, fears and compulsive behaviour. First results showed up quickly.

05Questions and answers

Your questions — my answers.

A session runs from one to two hours, depending on how complex the request is.

I can't predict the number of sessions — every request is different. But I don't stretch the work out over years: my job is to teach you to handle your own difficulties. For as long as you need me, I'm here.

A one-hour consultation costs €50. Payment by online transfer; for in-person meetings in Belgrade — cash or transfer.

Packages of several sessions come with a discount — the bigger the package, the bigger the discount. I quote the exact package price when you book, before the first session. No «you'll find out during the consultation».

Through the form on this site or via any of my social accounts. You can message me right now on Telegram — @evasexology — I'll reply as soon as I'm free.

Rescheduling and cancellation are free if you let me know at least 24 hours before the session. Just message me on Telegram and I'll offer the open slots.

If you tell me later than that, or don't show up at all, the session counts as held and is paid in full: I kept that time for you and couldn't offer it to anyone else.

If I cancel a session, I either move it to a time that suits you or refund it in full — your choice.

I am not a doctor: I don't diagnose, don't prescribe medication and don't replace psychiatric or medical care.

If it becomes clear that depression, an eating disorder, an addiction or another condition requiring a doctor sits behind the request, I say so directly and refer you to the right specialist. If needed, we keep working alongside them.

I also don't work with minors, and I don't handle acute crises that need emergency help.

Sex and closeness — lower desire, shame, difficulty with orgasm, not being able to say «no».

Relationship crises — routine, the aftermath of infidelity, intrusive thoughts after a breakup.

For men — fear of «not performing», anxiety about sexual confidence, the effect of stress on your sex life.

For women — the aftermath of abuse in a relationship, adjusting after childbirth, not accepting your own sexuality.

We talk about finding interest in each other again, choosing toys, discussing fantasies and boundaries with a partner, and rebuilding trust and honesty.

If a physical symptom may have a medical cause, I say so directly and suggest seeing a doctor.

CBT — we track dysfunctional beliefs and patterns and replace them with ones that work.

Body-oriented therapy — teaches you to hear emotions through the body and release tension.

Coaching — specific techniques that open up your potential.

I'm also actively studying hypnosis, group and family therapy, art therapy and other approaches.

06Contact

Trust what you feel.

If you're ready to change your life, I'll help you understand the reasons and find the solution that works for you. Let's start with a clean slate.

Telegram
@evasexology
WhatsApp · Phone
+7 929 551 58 50
In person
Belgrade · by appointment
Mon–Sun · 10:00 — 22:00
Online · worldwide
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A name, please — two letters is enough
How can I reach you
Pick whatever suits you
A @username or a phone number both work
Check the number — with the country code, as in the example
Check the address — there seems to be a typo
Any one will do — Telegram, WhatsApp or email
One sentence is enough — what brings you here

Confidential · I reply within 24 hours

Eva does not work with minors: requests from anyone under 18 are not accepted and are deleted.

Thank you, I've got your request

I reply within 24 hours. If you'd rather write sooner — I'm on Telegram: @evasexology

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